Do men mind dating virgins
after all, I'm looking in my own age range, where it wouldn't be that uncommon to find virgins... Its hard to believe, but definitely possible and I always give the benefit of the doubt... It would not make me not love them the same, but it would make me wait to be their first until they know they are absolutely sure and I know I would be for absolutely sure. Also, why is it *so* difficult to find guys who are virgins, and are planning to stay that way until *they* are married?
If they waited that long to do something, then I want to make it wait longer and be for the right reasons... Are you guys so insecure about *being a man* that if you're still a virgin after, say, 16 or so, you're automatically catagorized as gay, a loser, etc., just because you actually, maybe, just maybe, want to be in love with the person you have sex with?
One of the biggest problems virgins face is that they don't know why they want to be virgins.
Their parents told them not to sleep around, and it seemed like a good idea for a while, but it isn't something they've ever decided for themselves - or if they did at some point, they're now starting to doubt that decision.
And even though my beliefs have changed a lot since then, I can also identify with the belief that sex should be saved for marriage, or at least for some significant level of feeling or commitment.
There is no doubt in my mind that female virgins feel this pressure.
But that is what happens when you become over curious though... and the amount of crap they put up with for being virgins, thats got to show some sort of backbone or confidence or not all virgins are virgins on religious reasons.
some of them just have higher standards they aren't going to screw every tom****and harry that comes past. i am 19 year old virgin, not religious just haven't met a nice guy i wanted to sleep with. No problem for me, although I am a virgin myself and only 20 years old, so I dont think it is a problem for me per say because of the position I am in. I could go into all the reasons why I haven't had sex, but I don't think anyone really gives a crap.
I regret a lot of my past personally because I chose not to wait... well in most cases anyway, and you wouldn't have any of the "well my last boyfriend did that for me".
Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate.i still remember my first time, every detail..
i wouldent mind, have dated one befor, and she was still a virgin when we went our own ways! I would not date a woman for a year or two before marrying her with no idea if we will enthrall each other between the sheets.
in a way it was nice, knew she wanted to saty a virgin so took away the PSI. I have complete respect for conviction, how much paitence I have for it is the question.
what we had left was lotsa snuggles and fun, just without the sex. If I'm dating a woman I want to be with her in every sense of the word within what for me is a reasonable time frame. I've 'de-flowered' 2 virgins in my time and while it's fantastic they want to give you 'the gift', it's a lot of responsibility and rotten because the first time sucks generally as they are always too tense and it hurts them...